1. Marriage is Based on Compatibility, Not Permanence
- Soilmen do not see marriage as a “till death do us part” commitment because their regenerative abilities mean they live longer and stay physically youthful for extended periods.
- Instead, marriage is often viewed as a long-term partnership, but not necessarily for life.
- Couples stay together as long as their bond remains strong, and amicable separations are accepted if they grow apart.
2. Bonding Ritual Instead of a Wedding
- Instead of a formal wedding ceremony, Soilmen perform a bonding ritual to signify their union.
- This ritual often involves:
- Sharing food from the same plate (symbolizing unity).
- Exchanging personal items that hold sentimental value.
- A physical test of trust, such as enduring pain together (e.g., holding a burning coal briefly) to prove their commitment.
3. Polygamy & Polyamory Exist, But Not for Everyone
- Some Soilmen practice monogamy, while others prefer polygamous or polyamorous relationships based on mutual agreement.
- Due to their long lifespans and regenerative bodies, some choose to have multiple partners over time rather than staying with one mate forever.
- However, cheating and betrayal are still frowned upon—relationships must be based on trust and open communication.
4. Female-Led Courtship
- Since female Soilmen control their fertility and have stronger muscle control, they are often the ones who initiate relationships.
- A female may choose her partner based on compatibility, strength, intelligence, or emotional connection.
5. Marriage and Social Status
- Unlike human societies where marriage can affect wealth or power, Soilmen marriages are more about personal bonds rather than financial or political gain.
- However, in powerful families (such as those in Thundarr City), marriages can still be used to strengthen alliances.
6. Divorce & Separation are Natural
- Because of their non-aging bodies and regenerative capabilities, Soilmen understand that emotional connections may change over time.
- If two partners feel their bond has faded, they peacefully separate without stigma, allowing each other to find new love.
Special Cases: Mr. Clown’s Influence on Marriage
- In Thundarr City, where Mr. Clown’s influence is strong, some corrupt individuals force arranged marriages for power and control.
- His underground networks exploit and manipulate female Soilmen, forcing them into unwanted relationships.
- This is one of the reasons heroes like Falcon and Kestrel fight against his corrupt empire.
Final Thoughts
The Soilmen marriage system is flexible, emotion-driven, and built on trust, making it less rigid than human marriage traditions.